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Chester's Tales
I’m Kathy Lapeyre, also known as “levarti2” on Twitter.
As a child my ambition was to teach English and write short
stories and although I didn’t do either of those things, I did work for over 25
years in the printing and publishing business.
My career started out at small weekly newspaper where I learned to do everything except run the presses. From there my husband and I and our toddler moved to a metropolitan area where I served a two-year apprenticeship in printing. Over the years I worked for several publishers in a variety of capacities, including staff and features writer for four magazines.
My career started out at small weekly newspaper where I learned to do everything except run the presses. From there my husband and I and our toddler moved to a metropolitan area where I served a two-year apprenticeship in printing. Over the years I worked for several publishers in a variety of capacities, including staff and features writer for four magazines.
It’s been almost 15 years since any of my work was published,
but I never stopped writing.
My husband and I retired and although we’ve always talked
about getting a Golden Retriever dog, we hadn’t had any pets since our children
were living at home. They each have families and/or pets of their own now but
Glenn and I were traveling and our lives seemed too busy to share with another
being.
One day, by chance, I spotted a cardboard sign by the
grocery store “Golden Retriever puppies for sale”. I called the phone number
listed and eventually ended up with a weaned female puppy. We named her Casey
and she was to be my pet. I would take her for walks, train her to be an obedient
and constant companion. Casey: my jogging buddy and friend to cuddle while I
read a book or watched a movie.
The day after I brought Casey home, tragedy struck. Glenn
fell from a ladder in the garage and was hit, broadside, by a stack of 2x4s
from top shelf. He broke his sternum in three places and was laid up for almost
nine months. Casey, not knowing any better, assumed her purpose in life was to
protect and care for Glenn. They are side-by-side companions and have been
every day since the accident. She whines mercilessly if he leaves her view for
more than a few minutes.
Although Casey is my dog too, there’s no comparison to the
attachment she has with Glenn. I was ready for my own dog. We made a conscious
decision to adopt a rescue dog and began researching various agencies and
volunteer organizations. There are so many animals out there in need of good
homes and we could provide that safe haven for the right dog.
His short biography on the web page was heart-wrenching. He
had been a puppy mill dog, kept in confined quarters with other dogs and was
alive for the express purpose to father puppies for sale. He was a cash machine
for people who starved and abused him.
Then he found us.
We’ve had Chester for six months and he continues to have
typical fearful dog issues. He’s the most gentle soul I’ve ever encountered,
but his rehabilitation will continue to be long and frustrating — for him and for
us. He doesn’t wag his tail … he doesn’t play ball or tug-of-war … he won’t
tell anyone he needs to go outside. Chester’s life revolves around a series of
fears, everything from a printer starting the first page to a knock at the
door. Every normal sight and sound are potential dangers to Chester.
Thankfully
we found the right dog, and vice versa, because we now have the time
and patience to help him become the best dog he can be.
There’s no rush. We encourage Chester as it seems appropriate. Other
times we
simply let him do his thing. Our level of involvement in Chester’s daily
rehabilitation depends on how traumatic his day has been, because every
day is
fraught with trauma of some type for Chester.
What I never expected was that Chester would rescue me as
well. Like most people, I thought we were doing a good and noble thing by
adopting a pet who needed a respite from the evil and neglect he’d experienced.
In the process I’d hoped Chester would evolve into the pet I “wanted”. Yes,
we’d provided all of his needs, but Chester has become the first pet I ever
“needed”. He’s taught me things about myself I never knew. I have more patience
than I ever believed. I’ve always had compassion, but the love I feel for this
7-year-old dog is unlike any other.
Chester is solely responsible for my return to writing. At
first he inspired Facebook posts. That became a blog and then my own domain,
followed by a website with weekly posts about Chester. He has a large daily following
from people all over the world.
Now, in addition to writing Chester’s Tales, diary of a Golden Retriever rescue dog, I’ve begun
a fiction novel that may end up being published before Chester’s story is
complete.
You can catch me any day, at any time on Facebook or
Twitter. Chester will be curled up at my feet or sitting beside me. He always
knows where to find me too … writing … it means he can nap undisturbed for long
periods of time … lying on my foot.
Kathy Lapeyre
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