Shameless in the South
I recently read and reviewed a novel titled “Have No Shame” by author Melissa Foster. It’s a wonderful story of forbidden love set against the background of 1960’s Arkansas and despite the progress made on paper, southern society was still very much holding fast to racism, bigotry, and outright segregation.
I imagine that everybody who reads this novel will be stirred by it emotionally. Whether you feel anger, sorrow, or surprise, the storyline and vivid imagery will evoke some feeling or passion, even if it is one that is as forgotten within you as the Civil Rights era seems to be forgotten in the minds of modern Americans.
One thing that I hope people do not experience when reading this novel is shame. I was born in Indiana, but moved to Arkansas at a very young age and was raised there, later moving to Tennessee for the high school years. I currently live in Georgia so I very much consider myself a southerner. I was raised in a culture that teaches that every meal should be followed by dessert, that tea should always be sweetened, and that children taking part in adult conversation are rude and out of place. I also grew up right across the road from a place that served my mother ice cream as a child out of their back door. I am not ashamed of those things and I am not ashamed of the south.
I was raised in a culture where every adult had a right to correct you if you were caught doing wrong. Paddles didn’t leave the principal’s office until I was in the 6th grade. I sat side by side with my white classmates and stressed over exams and book reports. Then I went to college and saw a Confederate flag up close for the first time. I learned what it is like to be invisible, the minority in a crowd that places no value on who you are or what you have to offer. I am not ashamed of those things, though, and I am not ashamed of the south.
If anything, what the painful yet truthful themes of “Have No Shame” have done is show me just how unashamed I am of my roots, my culture, and my southern heritage. My history is blemished with hatred, but I share love every day. My roots rattle with chains and are stained with blood, but I fly in freedom every day. My heritage is one of separation, but today I share my life with people from all over the world. I am a crusader for diversity. I am a lover of all mankind. I am shameless in my pursuit for equality among all men. I am a southerner.
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GE is the author of the "Love & Wrath" fiction series,
including her best selling debut novella and the best selling epilogue
to the series with complimentary audio. She was also previously
published as a contributing author to the non-fiction, inspirational
anthology "Super Singles Activate! Testimonies to Inspire and Uplift the
Single Woman". She is the content provider for the "L.O.V.E. -
Lyricism, Oration, Verse, Expression" blog featuring articles about
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others to develop entrepreneurial ideas. G.E. is available to chat with
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Atlanta, GA.
Thank you so much for having me on your blog!
ReplyDeleteMy pleasure. Thank you for sharing and lending your words and time to my little blog! :)
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What a wonderful, beautiful post, Gerria. My husband and I read it and both came away breathless. So many people don't understand, or remember the things that you and your mother, father, aunts and uncles experienced first hand. I'm glad HAVE NO SHAME inspired you and you should be proud. This is also quite a testament to your parents. Strong and proud people raise strong children to be strong and proud men and women. Give your mom a hug for me! xox
ReplyDeleteThank you Melissa! Tell your hubby thank you as well. It means a lot that you both read it. :-) My mom says hi and she wishes you the best.
DeleteWhat an inspiration, Gerria! Thank you for sharing this with us. And oh yes, I was also raised where any adult could set a misbehaving child in their place. Nowadays, you dare not look too crookedly at a child, even your own.
ReplyDeleteOh, and Shirletta...I found your great blog through the WLC Blog Follows on the World Literary Cafe! Great to connect!
Thank you J. Rose!
DeleteWhat a beautiful post, Gerria! I too am unashamed to be who I am. What happened was in the past, and just because it happened, it doesn't mean we're all stereotypes. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Em! I happen to know that you're a shining example of southern charm and beauty. :-)
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